Guys, Do you want to get more lovin? Buy more flowers.
It’s as simple as that. Well, not quite but even the smallest bunch of flowers has so much relationship currency, it should go in the investment column of your accounts instead of being recorded as an expense.
And, using financial terminology again, do you want to get more leverage from your investment? That’s just as simple as well. Instead of taking flowers home to give her, send them to her work where the other office girls will swoon and tell her how lucky she is to have a man that cares so much. It’s even better if she takes public transport where girls who’ve never met her will catch her eye and smile.
What if your girl is a stay at home mum or works from home. Even better. Call one of her friends and ask her to schedule a lunch date with your woman. Tell her that you want to send your girl a big bunch of flowers to be delivered to their table and get her to call you back and let you know the time and place for the lunch so you can organise it with your florist. You might find you also win some brownie points with her friend who has heard about some of your not so notable exploits.
She will feel like the most powerful and loved woman she knows. Unless of course you only ever send flowers on Valentines Day, a good way to tell her you need a reminder to express love for her. Or worse, when you need to apologise.
One of my great pleasures is seeing other men buying flowers. I especially love it, when they’re buying flowers with their kids and asking their children to help choose for mummy. What a great example those kids are getting, especially if they’re sons.
Of course, there is an even better reason than sex to buy flowers for your girl. To tell her that you love her and that you want her to know that you feel incredibly lucky to share your life with her. Whether it’s for eternity or just for now.
Every woman deserves a man that thinks she’s the best thing that ever happened to him.
Don’t know what to write in the card? Try one of these to get you started.
- My Love, may everyday by your side pale in comparison to the next.
- All that I am, and all that I will ever be, is humbly yours.
- The only evidence I have of a God, is that he sent me you.
- On my last day on earth, the last thing I want on my lips is yours.
- If all the wealth I ever had was your love, then that would be enough.
- If the Sun were to shine as brightly as your smile, then the earth would be perpetually bathed in sunlight.
OK, so they’re all second hand as they’re messages I’ve written to my wife but you get the picture. Good Luck.